Friday, November 8, 2013

Psychopathical parents




It is heartbreaking when parents kill their own kids more so when it is happening at an alarming rate. We have seen it in the news every now and then about a mother or father who kills her children and then kills her/himself. The question on most of us of sensible minds is; why would a parent kill her own kids? Why would you kill or harm the kids you are meant to protect from the harm world! Little angels with no understanding of your predicaments leading to your crazy mind!?

Well, I got just a little closure to the craziness of such mothers and fathers!.. Am having a conversation with My DISTANCE 'cousin', (and emphasis on distance because am so happy we are not from the same bloodline, list I turn into her) no offence, but I can't stand what she is swearing on. She has been having trouble in her marriage (like most marriages, that's not news, marriage is tough). But for her it's gotten to the point that the separation battle is re-occurring every other week!. And it's no longer a mental abuse it has turned out to be a physical battle to. They've even marked a part of the house where all the craziness takes place, just like a boxing league. I know what you're thinking, that can't be true, but I promise there are crazy people, so trust my words. I guess they have dismantled and destroyed the house and turned it upside down that it's becoming a financial strain that needs a strategy and thus the need for boxing league area. 


Well, my wise advice was for them to go see a counselor and figure out what they are doing wrong and figure out if they can savage their union. There can only be enough explanations one can come up with when they turn up to the office with a swollen black eye. I think she has a pretty good boss if you ask me.

So, as we are talking she swears on her dear life that if the hubby leave her for another woman and tries to take the kids, she'll kill the kids and then kill herself!. She goes on to lament that she wishes she never had kids and how if she had a chance she'd swallow them whole back to where they came from!...and on that point she lost me!. I know how much she loves her kids, so why she say that.

Shocked at where that conversation has lead us and seeing how worked up she is, I choose to Change the topic ...and minutes later excuse myself to get away and possibly give her space to cool down.


A few months later we meet again and just like any conversation starts, I ask about the kids and the husband and ask her to pass my greeting. Actually, I was hoping that she had taken back what she had said about the kids but to my surprise she goes like “my husband stole my youth and I wish I didn't have kids and if it comes to the worst and we divorce, I’ll rather kill the kids than have them be brought up by someone else, then kill myself”. That is when I knew she was not kidding or worked up the first time she said it, she is indeed crazy. Coz she repeated it to me over and over again. She went on to curse any other children the husband will have after hers.

I understand marriage is tough and not meant for the faint hearted, but why bring up the kids in your fight with the demons of marriage.I believe their life and happiness should come first. If a marriage is no working and you've tried counselling and even prayers, then it’s time to work out for the best well-being of the kids and your own sanity.

Now I understand and know how those psychopathical parents look like, they are just like me and you. It is psychopathical to even thinking of killing those little angels. and am tired of this world wide madness.

That’s my honest opinion!


Monday, November 4, 2013

SHODDY ADVERTS

Who is to blame for the shoddy adverts interrupting our program viewing?

Advertisement is an important form of marketing that should not be taken lightly. With good advertisements comes great margins and increased market share. A good advert has the ability to turn non-believers to loyal believers and users of a product. To the audience advertisements are informative, fun, entertaining they are like a breath of fresh air after s boring program; though sometimes annoying when they interrupt those additive programs, (you know the feeling).

But to a company they are the golden eggs and a great investment. I mean they are really expensive not every company can afford! So it is understandable when i question the intention of some of these shoddy adverts! Like, why would a company pay so much to come up with shoddy advertise campaign? I strongly believe that some people are sleeping on their jobs. Why would the marketing and management team approve such adverts to run on air and think that they will drive sales to the company or capture the audience attention? I bet the audience’ reactions would be " the company is just as shoddy as the advert they just put up!......

Is it lack of creativity, innovation, last minute rush productions or just mere ignorance?
No need to waste all those resources better put them to better use like suggestively "CHARITY"

Advertising is described as a form of marketing communication used to encourage, persuade, or manipulate an audience (viewers, readers or listeners; sometimes a specific group) to take or continue to take some action.

There are some great adverts from some very creative and serious companies. So here is a chance to shame all those meaningless adverts that are airing on TV and interrupting our program viewing!..

Let us be good citizens and help them realize that the ads are doing no good to the potential customers and the company in general. So Post and shame them!

Here are some of the shoddy adverts that need to be shamed!

There are some great adverts from some very creative and serious companies. So here is a chance to shame all those meaningless adverts that are airing on TV and interrupting our program viewing!..

Let us be good citizens and help them realize that the ads are doing no good to the potential customers and the company in general. So lets Post and shame them!


Here are some of the shoddy adverts that i think need to be shamed, whats yours?!



and this is my honest opinion



Friday, November 1, 2013

BREAK THROUGH MOMENT!

THAT ONE MOMENT THAT CHANGES YOUR LIFE COMPLETELY!...


Sometimes in life it feels like the best songs have been sang, the best inventions have been invented, the world has seen its best daylight and the brightest star already has a name, like everything is already in its own place !

Then something else happens, a moment that changes everything, you realize that the great moments have been lived, but the best moments are yet to come. Yesterday was great but tomorrow is even better. You realize that some stars haven’t been discovered and you can still put a name to one. You realize that the God who was,is still is and will be.

The best days of our life' are effortless and priceless just like the greatest breakthroughs happen in the strangest ways and places. We could be so down and broken trying to gather the strength to rise up on our feet, but falling again and again before we are even on our knees. Then one moment when we think it couldn't get any worse something happens that changes our attitude towards life. In that moment we find ourselves taking that ripe of faith, with a smile on our lips, we rise on our shaky feet. Something is different this time, because although our feet are shaking, there is a Strength eliminating from within and a soft voice of reason assuring us all will be ok.


And in that moment we find ourselves. We discover who we are and who we are meant to be. In that one moment we find the strength to get back on our feet again. For, it is in the darkest of night when the brightest start shines best.