Friday, November 8, 2013

Psychopathical parents




It is heartbreaking when parents kill their own kids more so when it is happening at an alarming rate. We have seen it in the news every now and then about a mother or father who kills her children and then kills her/himself. The question on most of us of sensible minds is; why would a parent kill her own kids? Why would you kill or harm the kids you are meant to protect from the harm world! Little angels with no understanding of your predicaments leading to your crazy mind!?

Well, I got just a little closure to the craziness of such mothers and fathers!.. Am having a conversation with My DISTANCE 'cousin', (and emphasis on distance because am so happy we are not from the same bloodline, list I turn into her) no offence, but I can't stand what she is swearing on. She has been having trouble in her marriage (like most marriages, that's not news, marriage is tough). But for her it's gotten to the point that the separation battle is re-occurring every other week!. And it's no longer a mental abuse it has turned out to be a physical battle to. They've even marked a part of the house where all the craziness takes place, just like a boxing league. I know what you're thinking, that can't be true, but I promise there are crazy people, so trust my words. I guess they have dismantled and destroyed the house and turned it upside down that it's becoming a financial strain that needs a strategy and thus the need for boxing league area. 


Well, my wise advice was for them to go see a counselor and figure out what they are doing wrong and figure out if they can savage their union. There can only be enough explanations one can come up with when they turn up to the office with a swollen black eye. I think she has a pretty good boss if you ask me.

So, as we are talking she swears on her dear life that if the hubby leave her for another woman and tries to take the kids, she'll kill the kids and then kill herself!. She goes on to lament that she wishes she never had kids and how if she had a chance she'd swallow them whole back to where they came from!...and on that point she lost me!. I know how much she loves her kids, so why she say that.

Shocked at where that conversation has lead us and seeing how worked up she is, I choose to Change the topic ...and minutes later excuse myself to get away and possibly give her space to cool down.


A few months later we meet again and just like any conversation starts, I ask about the kids and the husband and ask her to pass my greeting. Actually, I was hoping that she had taken back what she had said about the kids but to my surprise she goes like “my husband stole my youth and I wish I didn't have kids and if it comes to the worst and we divorce, I’ll rather kill the kids than have them be brought up by someone else, then kill myself”. That is when I knew she was not kidding or worked up the first time she said it, she is indeed crazy. Coz she repeated it to me over and over again. She went on to curse any other children the husband will have after hers.

I understand marriage is tough and not meant for the faint hearted, but why bring up the kids in your fight with the demons of marriage.I believe their life and happiness should come first. If a marriage is no working and you've tried counselling and even prayers, then it’s time to work out for the best well-being of the kids and your own sanity.

Now I understand and know how those psychopathical parents look like, they are just like me and you. It is psychopathical to even thinking of killing those little angels. and am tired of this world wide madness.

That’s my honest opinion!


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